Lessons from Tantric Massage 5 - Orgasm without Ejaculation

I expect, if asked, most men in the West would say that orgasm and ejaculation happen at the same time, are intimately connected and inseparable. Women are not faced with this situation as they do not ejaculate and can experience multiple orgasms, whilst the man who ejaculates stereotypically rolls over and goes to sleep when he has discharged his load. He is done for the time being.

Tantra indicates that orgasm and ejaculation are two processes that can be separated. Orgasm is the wonderful experience of energy streaming through the body. We most frequently associate this with genital sexual stimulation, whether by self pleasuring, masturbation or mutual stimulation as in sexual intercourse.  There are however other ways in which the energy can stream in some individuals, the most obvious are those who can experience nipple orgasm with out discharge or stimulation of the cock.

Ejaculation is the way the male body discharges semen from the prostate with sperm from the testicles. There are techniques in Tantra to prevent this happening. A fully trained tantric masseur will be able to give the appropriate instruction with how the massage will end under these circumstance using the Big Draw. The masseur will also be able to advise clients how they can develop this practice on their own as they self pleasure or masturbate. With practice it will be possible to experience the energy streaming - that is orgasm - without discharge. Those men who practice these techniques can be able to continue and have multiple orgasms like women can, they become The Multi-Orgasmic Man

For much more detailed information consult “The Multi-Orgasmic Man’ by Mantak Chia & Douglas Abrams Arava