Lessons from Tantric Massage 3 - Nipples

In some tantric massages all the body is explored to discover the sensitive, arousing areas of that particular person, and in women the start of Extended Sexual Orgasm is with nipple massage.

How much attention do men pay to their nipples as erogenous areas?

Three of my clients have highlighted how important their nipples are in their arousal and sexual experience. The first was unusual in that he was quite clear what he was looking for in massage at his first appointment. Slow gentle touch of his nipples. This I did with fingers, the palm of my hands, tongue and lips. It became for me something like a body/nipple meditation with energy focused on this simple connection which was for him clearly so arousing. The second also liked gentle nipple touch as the start of the massage and this clearly awakening and arousing. As the massage progressed the attention to nipples needed to become more vigorous, eventually using teeth or nipple clamps. The third is one where over a period of time he responded more and more to nipple massage and reached what for me appeared to be a nipple orgasm with energy streaming.

As I’ve been writing this blog I started to wonder how many men, who no doubt pay plenty of attention to their female partners breasts and nipples, do not fully appreciate their nipples as important erogenous parts of their bodies. In many things sexual I have been a very slow learner so it could just be that I am a representative of the outlying group of men who haven’t discovered all the wonders of their bodies, and the full range and extent of erogenous areas, including nippless. Tantra has provided me with amazing opportunities to explore and discover, and it is partly because I am so grateful that I want to spread the word and encourage more men onto this Tantra path.

I wish I had started onto this path 60 years ago.