Lessons from Tantric Massage 4 - What do we want and need in sex?
I started writing this blog because stepping into and delivering massage, tantric practices in particular, has opened me up to amazing new body and sexual experiences so I wanted to share this with other men. Whilst searching online for information about kinks I read this, “The first thing I like to tell people to do is to get curious,” says Goddess Amina, a certified somatic sexologist and a guest expert on Netflix's Sex, Love & Goop. “Just let curiosity guide you…and then see what develops from that.”
Curiosity took me to Netflix and there I watched the first 2 episodes and discovered each of the couples was invited to complete a quiz that would identify their ‘Erotic Blueprint’ and indicate what each wanted and needed in sex, differences they may not have realised even in long time relationships. The 5 sexual blueprints come from sex educator, Miss Jaiya: -
“Your Erotic Blueprint is a map to your own wiring and your own turn-on,” she says. “People speak different erotic languages, and we can learn how to speak any of them.”
Energetic - someone who is turned on by anticipation, space, tease, longing, yearning.
Sensual - someone who’s turned on by all of their senses being ignited.
Sexual - someone who is turned on by what we think of as sex in our culture.
Kinky - someone who is turned on by the taboo.
Shapeshifter - someone who’s turned on by everything the sensual, sexual, kinky, and energetic types are turned on by.
The link to the quiz to find your primary type can be found on: -
Or listen on YouTube - Basics of the Erotic Blueprint with Miss Jaiya
Completing the quiz is just the start. More in the next episode.
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