Lessons from Tantric Massage 2 - These experiences do not have to be confined to the massage room.

I have always hoped that those who come to me for massage will enjoy the massage experience, but I also hope they may take some of that experience away with them and incorporate it into their sex life or love-making. Have they been touched in places that have surprised them or in ways that have been new for them. If the massage finished with orgasm, with or without discharge, was this in any way different from the usual experience they have, either self pleasuring or with a partner? I have never carried out a survey of any kind to know whether any of that happens but am going to write about that in this blog. The place that clients have been taken into during the massage means that after it is finished this is not the time for much conversation, and certainly not for any detailed analysis. The latter would be head stuff anyway and my hope is that for my clients most of the experience is in their bodies and not their heads.

If however, you think tantric massage is nothing more than client and masseur being naked, mutual touching being allowed with lips and fingering, and that’s what you received, none of what I am going to say will land with you. It’s fine if that is what you were looking for and that is what you got. If you experienced something deeper and different and want to know more, with the possibility of taking it further and into your sex, lovemaking or relationship I hope I can encourage you to take some further steps and explore.

Tantra has changed my life.

The key to an authentic tantric massage is the connection with the energy body, energy centres - the chakras. For those familiar with Tantra and tantric practices all of this will be familiar to them, but for those who chose a tantric massage without any prior knowledge or experience this may be news. The masseur is seeking to open the energy body, to allow energy to flow especially that between heart and sex. That is what can lead to a whole body orgasm which for many is profoundly different from what they have been used to. If you have experienced something in what has been called a tantric massage or a naturist massage that blew you away have you any idea whether that can happen again for you away from the massage room? If so why not ask your masseur if you return to him. If the experience was the result of a tantric practice he can either advise about the steps you can take individually or recommend group meetings, either mixed or men only to further explore tantra.

I will continue to share my experience of tantra in this blog and also delve into BDSM and role play, both of which might at some point become part of the massage experience.